Check your toiletries for parabens - these come in various forms (butyl paraben, methylparaben etc)
These have been linked with a medical condition called "estrogen dominance" whereby normal estrogen production is disrupted in favour of storing these dangerous man-made estrogens (also known as xenoestrogens). These can be responsible for various cancers and endocrine dysfunction as well as fat gain around the bum and thighs (the estrogen receptor sites).
Chuck them out and replace them with an organic wash (for men I recommend the Bulldog range and I say this without any financial gain, its just my mens range of choice). Also look for ones that exclude sodium laureth sulphate.
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